We all play different roles in our lives – daughter, son, sister, brother, mother, father, wife, husband, extended family member, friend, helper, healer, worker, employer, artist, musician, scientist, inventor, entrepreneur, philanthropist – the list goes on and on. We are not always totally prepared for each role and often have to learn how to slip into it. When we are our true authentic selves, our true roles in life are an extension of who we really are and we learn to be flexible with our energetic field to accommodate the needs of those roles. True roles in our lives and energy field always bring us forward due to the service to ourselves and to others we provide in those roles. They are truly a part of us, a part of our field and essence and our path and purpose in life. We should always be working on strengthening these roles and putting them out into the world to support others on their own paths. There is _always_ full and direct light available to these roles.
That being said, there are other roles we play in this life that do not bring us or anyone else forward. Some people have a tendency to create energetic configurations in their field that are essentially coping mechanisms because their true roles don’t know how to deal with certain situations. These configurations act a bit like masks and make it difficult for light from the outside to get into a person’s field properly and also keep a person from seeing the world properly when that role configuration is active. These types of roles include being the “victim” role, the “savior” role, the “wounded healer” role, the “nobody understands me” role, the “know-it-all” role, the “not worth being loved” role, the “I have to do it all myself” role, the “I am better than you are” role, the “invalid” role – the list goes on and on. Any role that does not bring you or another being forward and closer to pure white perfect light is not a true rule but a false one. The light is _always_ skewed by these roles.
False roles are not our roles even if we created them (usually out of desperation) or we accepted them unknowingly or they were forced on us through circumstance. We do not need to own them and we certainly do not need to create our identity around them. For many, it is hard to separate themselves but it is totally worth it! We are Children of God and God did not intend for us to live false roles but rather to magnify our true roles in our authentic selves!
What do we do about the false roles in our field? Most people are already working on resolving them using whatever means they have learned. However, some people have more complicated or complex fields than others, for example, the Mixed Energy Type but any energy type may have a problem with false roles depending on previous life experiences. The best way I have found so far is actually to not focus directly on the false roles but to strengthen the authentic self and its true roles. Any modality should be able to do this. Here are some examples:
To strengthen the authentic self and its roles with the Soul Code Method:
Use the SCM Basic Table:
SCM Basic Chart
Your intent is to perfectly strengthen your authentic self in all its roles.
Test how many steps from the chart you need. Look at the chart and determine the first step. Your intent here is to not ‘do’ the step but to ‘have it done’ by pure white perfect light. When the step has been done, you will be able to go to the next step. Please note: you do _not_need to know any more information about any step (e.g., who is involved, when, how, inherited, etc.). These steps are designed to be as non-triggering as possible. When all the steps are done, you can test how far the support of your authentic self has gotten and whether you need to do this process again and when the next best time is. This will help make you stronger than your false roles!
Using the Emotion Code and the Body Code:
Test on a scale of 1-10 how strong your authentic self is in its roles. If it is not 10, test for the steps on the Emotion Code chart or in the Body Code and work to get that number to 10.
Using EFT:
Test on a scale of 1-10 how strong your authentic self is in its roles. If it is not 10, do the following setup on the karate chop point and tap as many rounds as needed:
Even though my authentic self is not perfectly strong in its roles, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Tapping on this topic, may bring up other issues that need to be tapped on before making continued progress.
Using Reiki on yourself:
Focus your hand positions on the chakras that you feel or intuit need it the most for strengthening your authentic self on all its roles. If you are a Reiki Master, I would definitely include the Master symbol.
If you have suggestions on how to do this for other modalities, please let me know and I will add them to the list!